what had happened was...

it's never a good story when it includes that phrase huh? i have a problem with this phrase for a few reasons, especially when it comes to describing a fight. the other day some guy comes up and explains why his eye is on swoll without me even asking. he was quick to let me know that he had a lot of "so-called" friends there but none of them helped him out. you know what? i'll just start the list now:

1) throwing blame- look if you got whooped, so be it. i bet if your friends were there when you told the story, their version would be completely different.
2) distracted- how is it the person that loses always is a victim of a sucker punch?
3) i would have- "okay homie knocked me down but if he had stayed there i would have knocked him out!" nah, you probably be in a hospital.
4) girl- most of the time is starts with a girl. probably met her at the club and either old dude bought her a drink or his lady got beef with yours and you tried to break it up...sound familiar?

the point is, if you got whooped, just say it. i dont need a "what had happened was..." story. by the way, sorry for the accidental delete brittbrat! what had happened was...lol

Dom
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