like, luh, love...what ya say?

LONELY: "i can't believe he just up and left me without saying a word. he didn't even try to work things out with me."
FRIEND: "well you guys argued all the time. you're better off without him."
LONELY: "you're probably right, but he told me he loved me!"

sound familiar? now i'm no love doctor by anymeans but there are men and women out there that confuse "like" with "luh" and "love". follow me for a minute coz this can surely prevent a lot of unnecessary heartbreak.
first off, i'll start by saying if you have only known that person for 3 months or less, you have no business tryna love them. nobody reveals their true self in the first 90 days. their too busy tryna be "perfect".
second, if they say they love you, ask them why. what sets you apart from everybody else that they can't seem to find in another person.
third, listen. if they say they "luh" you they dont "love" you. it's less than love and more than like. this is not the time to move in with them.
fourth, be patient. if they are caught up in their career, they probably don't have much time for a serious relationship. don't try to force them to make a lot of time for you or be overly intimate early in the relationship. give them a chance to pace themselves and manage their priorities. forcing their hand will only scare them away. they will miss you in their own time.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...