black and black only?

so i'm talking to a really good friend of mine, and somehow in the convo we got on the "issue" of black men not dating black women. namely me. first off let me start by saying that i am an equal opportunity dater. i don't choose a woman based on race. second let me add that i have dated black women in the past. that being established, let's dig deeper into this issue becoz i hear this alot. funny thing is no one has a problem with the fact that haven't dated any white women. hmm...
there are people that choose to stay within their own race. that's their preference. more power to them. there are good black men out there that black women don't give the time of day. why? typically coz he's not flashy like the guys with the rims or with the chain making the short-lived quick bucks being loud and saying "shawty" every third word. he's the one being overlooked becoz he tried doing things the right way (going to school etc) and he has bills he needs to pay off before he's fully established. but a lot of women don't want to wait for somebody like that. that's women in general- not just black women.
now...there are guys out there that choose not to date black women becoz of how the typical black woman is portrayed in society (the media is partially to blame for that): loud, ghetto, gold-diggers with attitudes.
now back to me:
i don't want a woman that doesn't want better for herself than what her gloomy environment has to offer, and i don't want someone that is not willing to work for it. i don't want a woman that is looking for handouts. i don't want a woman who feels like she is entitled to something all the time. i dont want a woman that acts as if i am fortunate to be with her as if i couldn't do any better if i tried. i dont want a woman that acts like she has an attitude problem every 5 minutes. i dont want a woman who's goal in life is to meet 50 Cent. i don't want a woman who can't accept me for who i am. now if that is your definition of a black woman, then you're right...i don't want one.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
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