Sunday, May 30, 2010

remember black wallstreet


"little africa on fire" (caption on pic reads)-
i remember it like it was yesterday...10 years ago, i was a sophomore in high school teaching my u.s. history class (including teacher who was easily twice my age) about an overlooked, often forgotten and hushed turning point of my city's history: the tulsa race riot of 1921. until recently, it was left out of a lot of history books. many thought i was crazy as i related the stories told to me by some of the survivors. they say oral history is biased, but realistically, written history is full of politics (ie: in 1919, president woodrow wilson received the nobel piece prize for his peace efforts abroad, but shortly after he leaves office, north tulsa gets burned to the ground. ironic?)

may 30-june 1, 1921- the basics of the tulsa race riot
setting and premise:may 1921. widespread economic depression across the entire u.s. oklahoma 14 years past declaration of statehood. harding is president. promising return to normalcy. works to outlaw lynching. kkk at highest numbers. tulsa, ok had it's own "mason-dixon line" and is divided by one street running east-west (admiral). blacks and black owned businesses, schools, etc to the north. whites and white owned businesses, schools etc to the south. the prominent black side of town was called greenwood. it was know for it's upbeat nightlife where many musicians passed through to perform, it's self-sufficency (grown here, bought here), and rapid flourishment. unlike their white neighbors to the south, the area proved to be thriving and recession-proof earning the nickname "black wallstreet". before there was chicago, dallas, atlanta, and los angeles (as they are now); there was tulsa-the pride of the great southwest.
"cause": a black man trips while entering an elevator (operated by a white woman) of a building he worked in and breaks his fall by hanging on the elevator operator. she screams. he is subsequently arrested for assault (elevated to sexual assault). rumor gets out that he was to be hung for his crime. a crowd of black men, take up arms and march to the courthouse. a white man, at the courthouse grabs the gun of one of the black men there. a struggle ensues, the white man lay dead, and the riot begins. the greenwood area, also known as black wallstreet, is burned down to the ground by angry white rioters. planes were used to "burn little africa" to the ground. after the riot was over, the elevator operator dropped the charges due to a "misunderstanding".
aftermath: official death toll was set at 39 (26 black and 13 white). despite the coverup, there has been sufficent evidence brought forth to prove that a mass burial exists across the street from where the old drillers baseball stadium once stoodb where many were rounded up for "safety" then mowed down with machine guns and dragged out, dumped into a landfill-like grave where a shopping center now sits. additionaly, there was a park that called for expansion in 2002. when excavation began, another mass burial was found.
many mayors, governors, congressmen, politicians etc. have aplogized for the incident yet have failed to agree on an appropriate form of repirations. to date, the greenwood area has yet to recover and is now considered the ghetto.

food for thought. remember my city as it was this holiday.

Dom
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be easy coz life is hard...

Sunday, May 23, 2010

what had happened was...


it's never a good story when it includes that phrase huh? i have a problem with this phrase for a few reasons, especially when it comes to describing a fight. the other day some guy comes up and explains why his eye is on swoll without me even asking. he was quick to let me know that he had a lot of "so-called" friends there but none of them helped him out. you know what? i'll just start the list now:

1) throwing blame- look if you got whooped, so be it. i bet if your friends were there when you told the story, their version would be completely different.
2) distracted- how is it the person that loses always is a victim of a sucker punch?
3) i would have- "okay homie knocked me down but if he had stayed there i would have knocked him out!" nah, you probably be in a hospital.
4) girl- most of the time is starts with a girl. probably met her at the club and either old dude bought her a drink or his lady got beef with yours and you tried to break it up...sound familiar?

the point is, if you got whooped, just say it. i dont need a "what had happened was..." story. by the way, sorry for the accidental delete brittbrat! what had happened was...lol

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...

Friday, May 21, 2010

"...she was trying to get his attention..."


okay, i had a little trouble with this one. not that i was torn, but the fact i wanted to believe the teacher and the double talking lawyer were sincerely apologetic and are willing to admit guilt on the part of the teacher, but i felt like they were still trying to justify the reason for her actions by blaming the way the system is being run.

the story line: in houston, tx a teacher has been fired for beating a 13 yr old student causing a black eye, a contusion, and bruises.
the excuse: student was a threat to a mental disable female student.
justification: student has abusive criminal record and has a history of striking fellow students as well as teachers. according to her lawyer "...she was trying to get his attention...".
setting: jamie's house charter school for troubled teen. "no system of security". teachers are first and last line of defense for themselves and other students in locked rooms.

watch here

my take on it: okay. you know what you're getting into working in an environment where these kids have known issues. these are kids. they obviously have no positive role models. this particular situation involves a teacher who earned teacher of the year twice in three years of teaching. you mean to tell me that she could not think of any better way to handle this situation? how about becoming a physical barrier between the aggressor and the victim. call for backup. call his momma. she's on camera portraying that she cares (but then again, dollar signs cause people to do strange things). to me, it seems the stress of the job (i do not doubt that the school is a highly stressful environment) got the best of her and she found an inappropriate outlet in the form of a trouble making teen. i relate this incident to working in a mental institution. these people are fragile. we know that going in. so if a mental disable patient hits you or becomes aggressive, we relate that to a mental disease, restrain them, remove them from the situation, and give them space. why couldn't she and the onlooking staff do the same? i'm not saying this boy was an angel, just an angel with a problem.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...

mercy or no mercy?


san antonio, tx - may 2009 (pic from dash cam of v.i.a. bus)

the mother of a now 2 yr old baby is begging for mercy to keep her three children after a bus driver nearly hit the then 14 month old whom was seated in the middle of a busy street! if that's not bad enough, throw in the fact that it was midnight and the parents had no idea that their baby was outside...yeah. fortunately for everyone involved, the bus driver stopped just feet in front of the baby. once the bus driver got out of the bus, the father of the baby trotted out, picked up the baby, and turned to go inside without saying a word.

watch the video here

so i ask you, yeah things happen. and sometimes it takes a mistake before some people learn. but this incident could have cost that baby's life. do these parents deserve mercy?
notice the way everything went down then answer this: why weren't the parents more grateful to the alert bus driver? and why wasn't the 14 month old IN BED LIKE THE REST OF THE BABIES AROUND THE WORLD? even if the kids were allowed to be up at that hour, why weren't they being supervised with an open door?

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

whaaat?


okay...there are some products out there that made me step back and say "are you serious? that's what they call it huh?" namely the iPad and Nature Valley's Sweet and Salty Nut Bars...enough said. so i did some research and found some that were even worse than that (courtesy of oddee.com). enjoy:

12 most unfortunate product names:

12. Vergatario Mobile - in Venezuela it means "reliable". in latin america it's slang for "penis".
11. 666 Cold Medicine - yeah.
10. Cock Flavoured Soup mix - um okay?
09. Jussipussi bread - yummy!
08. SARS (drink) - no thanx New Zeland.
07. Wack Off (insect repellant) - idk ask Austrailia.
06. Megapussi (chips) - family size bag of Tinypussi chips (just a guess).
05. Shitto (sauce) - mmm Ghanna.
04. Ayds (diet candy) - pronounced "AIDS". no comment.
03. Pee Cola - from Ghanna. to wash down your Shitto sandwich.
02. Vergina Beer - to wash down your Jussipussi bread.
01. Golden Gaytime ice-cream - you can thank Austrailia for that.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...

like, luh, love...what ya say?


LONELY: "i can't believe he just up and left me without saying a word. he didn't even try to work things out with me."
FRIEND: "well you guys argued all the time. you're better off without him."
LONELY: "you're probably right, but he told me he loved me!"

sound familiar? now i'm no love doctor by anymeans but there are men and women out there that confuse "like" with "luh" and "love". follow me for a minute coz this can surely prevent a lot of unnecessary heartbreak.
first off, i'll start by saying if you have only known that person for 3 months or less, you have no business tryna love them. nobody reveals their true self in the first 90 days. their too busy tryna be "perfect".
second, if they say they love you, ask them why. what sets you apart from everybody else that they can't seem to find in another person.
third, listen. if they say they "luh" you they dont "love" you. it's less than love and more than like. this is not the time to move in with them.
fourth, be patient. if they are caught up in their career, they probably don't have much time for a serious relationship. don't try to force them to make a lot of time for you or be overly intimate early in the relationship. give them a chance to pace themselves and manage their priorities. forcing their hand will only scare them away. they will miss you in their own time.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...

Monday, May 17, 2010

law abiding citizen


for anybody who hasn't seen this movie, it makes you think about what you would do if you were in the same situation. think about it. if somebody murdered your familly in front of you, what would you do? a lot of us would say that everybody involved would pay, but where do we draw the line? when do you stop avenging and start becoming a murderer yourself? this is a pretty dark subject but i think we all need to step back and think about the things we say and manifest in our hearts. on the other hand, the justice system isn't perfect. we can definitely do better in that sense. legal loopholes are nonsense when the case is black and white.
i liked the movie from a writer's prospective. couldn't have written it any better.

Dom
if nobody feels you, i feels you, feel me?
be easy coz life is hard...
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